Bridesmaid anyone?

POSTED ON: Tuesday, November 26, 2013 @ 10:55 PM | 0 comments

I have been waiting on planning my future wedding since I was in junior high. I'm sure every girl out there has there some sort of idea they want for their future wedding, who they want as their bridesmaid, maid of honor, their theme, etc. I think one of the hardest choices is picking the bridesmaid & the maid of honor. Honestly, girls can get really nasty & jealous even if they're not pick as your maid of honor. Everyone wants to be that special person who helps the bride plan everything, & I would want to be picked as that person too. But in reality, there usually can be only maid of honor. For my wedding however, before I plan anything by myself I do want the opinion of my fiance & my maid of honor, because sometimes you can't really decide things on your own. I have picked 7 bridesmaid in total, yes there are 7! But me & the groom to be decided not to tie the knot till 2016. We want to save enough money for the wedding & to move out on our own. 
That being said, I will not tell all 7 girls that they will be my bridesmaid, because a lot can happen in 2 years, friendships can end in a matter of seconds. Also with that being said, I have decided to tell 4 people. First would be my maid of honor. My maid of honor is someone I decided a long time ago, who is my best friend always. She's someone who is there for me always, no matter if we hardly talk, we know if we ever need anything from each other we are there for on another. Second & third is from my family, obviously they will always be there even in 2 years time. Lastly is going to be my best women. Yeah I'm going to have a best women, just because I don't like the idea of giving the maid of honor all the responsibilities & stressing out. I've heard a lot of maid of honors stressing out more then the bride. This way I will have 2 people who can help me & who can balance each other out. But I don't know who to put as my best women, I'm stumped on 2 people. 2 different girls, who I've been stressing over in giving the title to. I will probably discuss it with the maid of honor & get her opinion. I'm planning to tell the Maid of honor & 2 bridesmaid first during the Christmas season, they will get a nice surprise with their present! Wish me luck on finding my best women soon! xo

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